Saturday, January 12, 2008

Venting!

I am soooooo frustrated with some people in my life right now! There are some girls that we (Jessica, DeAnna, and I) were really good friends with this summer. We all did so much together, like dinner, movies, camping, we were all together every day. Things changed a bit when DeAnna left and Jess and I moved, but we had all be trying for a time to keep as close as we could with us no longer being in the same complex. It has been more difficult lately, and schedules didn't seem to match up. However, this weekend it all came to a screeching halt, followed by a crash and explosion of emotions and tempers.

We were supposed to celebreate Jess' birthday and she tried to find out when people were available, but they never responded, so she/we finally just planned something and yet again, they had already made plans and were not going to come. It seems like this is a pattern with these people, and I am sick of it. It got heated through texts and others (who had not been in the conversation) put their own 2 cents in and exponentially increased the drama in the situation (which is a normal occurance for this person). This friendship that had been so strong just a few short months ago is now going up in smoke.

One thing that really frustrates me is that it seemed like it was 2 against 1 on Jessica, and I wasn't able to help her cause. This may be a good thing, because I probably would have gone off. I still may if I am given the opportunity to do so. You do not say such things to anyone, much less someone you call your friend. Trying to express feelings that may be a little upsetting is one thing, but downright attacking someone is a whole new ballpark and unacceptable and just plain rude. AUGH! This is not going to be pretty!

3 comments:

stephanie said...

I am so sorry for the drama that you are having. It doesnt sound fun at all. Sometimes people can be so childish. This world would be so much better if people would just forget themselves and quite being selfish. I am sorry that you have to deal with this, one day those girls will grow up. If you need me I got your back. ;)(speaking of not being immature, hehe) I heart you

Dani & Bryan said...

I second what Steph said. You have a fleet of mafia redheads at your finger tips whenever needed! :)

Kris10 said...

I appreciate that you have my back, just in case there is a rumble!